Terra's Past Letters

Sex and Sexuality:
"I feel kind of stupid."

Hey Terra,

My boyfriend asked me to either give him a hand job or head. And I don't know how to do either. I feel kind of stupid because I don't know how or what it is. Can you tell me what it is and what I'd have to do?

Thanks so much.

IDK

Dear IDK,

He's talking about hand to genital contact and mouth to genital contact. But here's the thing, if you aren't comfortable enough with your boyfriend to honestly tell him that you don't know what he's talking about, how will you be comfortable enough to touch him, etc.?

In friendship,

Terra

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Sex and Sexuality:"I feel kind of stupid."

Sex and Sexuality:
"I feel kind of stupid."