Terra's Past Letters

Wondering

Dear Wondering,

If they "play" you then they aren't such "nice guys." Nice guys treat girls with the respect they deserve.

As for Mr. Please give me another hand-job, I'm very proud of you saying "No" and for telling the truth about what you want, "a guy who respects me and loves me for who I AM!" Brava!

When he said that you "won't do it cuz you're scared," that was his way of putting you down and trying to manipulate you into letting him use you again. I'm really glad you told him no. That guy should use his own hand because he sure doesn't care about the person attached to your hand!

I'm not a matchmaker, so I can't help you find a guy that will "respect you and love you." But don't worry about that. You'll meet the right guy when the time is right. And meanwhile, live your life and continue to make good choices that will make you feel proud of who you are.

You're on the right track now.